| Living Room out to Back Patio |
| Kitchen with Island Stub Outs |
| Master Bedroom out to Back Patio |
| Look Ma, no tooth! |
| At Trans-Siberian Orchestra |
| We have no idea why he's a Packers fan... |
| This poor soul has decided he's a Raiders fan like his Daddy... |
| Because the real live dog isn't good enough |
| Once again the highlight of Christmas! |
| Hi Mom and Dad |
| Foxy Lady! |
| Feliz Navidad |
| Merry Christmas To All |
| Jake was up for angel duty this year. The first year he did it on his own without being lifted up. |
| No tears for the first time EVER! |
| It's a really BIG shot at this age |
| Jake brings it down |
| Coaching Tanners Team |
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| Our New House Elevation |
| Welcome Home! |
As big on tradition as Brian and I both are, for some reason neither of us feel the need to continue our forefathers yearly ritual of roast turkey, cranberry sauce, mashed potatoes, and green bean casserole with our kids. We both grew up with Thanksgiving Day being a big deal. We both came from families that celebrated this day in style, with all the fixings. And we both have wonderful memories of Thanksgivings of our childhood. Maybe it is my lack of cooking skill (or desire to put my hand inside a turkey's you-know-what), maybe it is the fact that my kids don't like any of the traditional foods, maybe it is because I have never liked sweet potatoes or stuffing or cranberries- even the homemade kind. We both love to celebrate the day in style at the homes of our loved ones where other people do most of the cooking and we just are "helpers". Last year at Lisa and John's in Seattle was so much fun and it would have been great to see everyone-but this year we didn't have travel plans (having learned our lesson the hard way about traveling through snow storms in an old Suburban over mountains). We knew we were home for the big day and we wanted to make it memorable- minus the feast.
We decided to invite all of our local friends over for a casual day of football watching, a family flag football game on the Green, appetizers, and dessert. We didn't know who would come- knowing that most people had family in town or plans of their own. All we knew for sure is we would have the five of us and Nana. We ended up with two families and an extra kid- a friend of Jake's from football. People arrived a little after 3 and we ate chips and salsa, artichoke dip, cheese and crackers, and other easy finger food. We watched the games on TV, talked, and shared our house plans with everyone. Beer was on hand, as was plenty of Diet Coke. It was "come as you are"- definitely no dressing up required (as you can see from my baseball cap and sweats).
The highlight of the day was the Thanksgiving Bowl. We split everyone into two teams and had our own football game. Faith started out wanting to be scorekeeper but ended up taking part in the action- and even scoring a big touchdown for our team (aided by a lot of people that mysteriously were unable to pull her flag as she ran first one way down the field, then the other). No one took the game too seriously- Brian even going so far as to utilize the defensive tactic of trying to "pants" the person he was defending (that would be me). Even Jake, our ultra-competetive kid- was able to just play for fun and not worry about the score. I'm not entirely sure who had more fun- the kids or the adults. There was perfect weather- chilly but not cold with a little sunshine peeking through. We stayed outside until the sun went down, then headed indoors for a little more NFL and delicious pies that Mom made.
All in all it was a great day spent with people we like doing things that we love eating food that we enjoy. Isn't that what Thanksgiving is all about?
We decided to celebrate Tanner's birthday in conjunction with Mom's birthday on Sunday night. He was, not uncharacteristically, pretty low key about the whole thing. I mean he didn't really care what kind of cake we got and he didn't drive us crazy for days asking us when he could open presents. But I think he had a really good time and truly liked everything he got. Brian and I surprised him with a bike/skateboard ramp like the one the kids down the street have. He hadn't asked for it on his birthday wish list but we were pretty sure he'd be thrilled. Brian caught the expression on his face- which was priceless. He also loved his new Reezig shoes (thanks, Grandma Mary!), Under Armor gear (Thanks, Auntie Sue!), and Happy Napper (Thanks, Nana!)
Yes, he has become quite the "brand name" guy-asking specifically for Under Armor and Reeboks. Happy Nappers commercials are shown each morning when they have TV time so I knew that was a "must have" as he's been asking for one for about a year! We sang happy birthday and he blew out the candles on the cake we bought that morning. He, however, didn't want cake, preferring to eat the last bit of his chocolate football that was sent in his "Happy Thanksgiving Package" from Grandma Mary last week!
I've been telling him since his last birthday that he is not allowed to turn six. I joke with him that he better still cuddle with me when he is 6 and 16 and 60. He snuggled up to me on the couch later that night and said, "See, Mom? I'm six and I still will cuddle with you whenever you want!". Let's see if he will still be such a love at 16! I can only hope.
Does he have to turn six? Really? Because I love this age and I'd kind of like to freeze time. He brought home this list of things he is thankful for this week. In case you can't read it on the picture, here it is:
my famle
home
wotr
car
chres (trees)
bed
food
bes (bees)
clos (clothes)
frens (friends)
scool
shoos
froot
He had his Thanksgiving Feast yesterday at school.He was dressed in his little pilgrim hat and collar and out of the huge array of Thanksgiving foods to choose from he had carrots, cheese, and deli turkey. No pie. No cranberries. No olives, stuffing, or potatoes. Is it any wonder I don't go to the trouble of making a traditional dinner for my children? Despite his picky eating habits, on my list of things I am thankful for, that little boy is definitely a contender for #1.
It took me awhile to get into the Halloween Spirit this year. On Sunday I finally felt like participating and we carved the pumpkin and made pumpkin seeds. Up till that point the most I had done was find Faith her cheerleader paraphenelia and went with Tanner's Kindergarten class to the pumpkin patch. Fall has been so beautiful here and I have enjoyed the weather and the trees and the chill in the air so much- but with the house on the market we didn't really get into the decorating part of Halloween.
Once again we had two football players. I think that is three years in a row. Easy, cheap costume! Plus the boys always get tons of comments from people in support of the Broncos. Although one house gave everyone else at their door two pieces of candy and the boys only got one piece each since the person that answered the door was a Vandals fan.
Faith went to preschool as a cheerleader and went trick or treating at the mall with Miss Wendy after school. That night she was a bat. She was thrilled with this last minute costume I found at the thrift store and kept saying all night, "Mom, thank you SO MUCH for getting this for me. I LOVE it!". She ran down the street flapping her wings and making bat noises. Most people thought she was a cat but she happily corrected them while taking their candy.
Jake invited a friend along this year and they ran on up ahead of us on each block and waited for us at the end of each street. It was kind of bittersweet in that I know this could be the one of the last Halloweens when Jake wants to be with us. Soon he will be off on his own with his friends and mom and dad will be so "uncool". Ugh.
As always there were a ton of kids out in the neighborhood and many adults set up outside with their buckets of candy and bonfires. It's always so festive here. The weather wasn't too cold so no heavy coats were needed- which is always nice! We were out for about 90 minutes and the kids raked in the candy. Seriously WAY TOO MUCH candy. I have no willpower so after the kids go to bed I raid it all. I am all "butterfingered" out now and it is only the 2nd of November!
As usual, there's a lot going on over here these days. For one, we decided to put our house on the market. No, we are not leaving Idaho. We aren't even leaving our neighborhood. We just want to move to a different house within Hidden Springs. We are exploring the idea of building a house on one of the few remaining lots that back up to Open Space. This is on Brian's "Bucket List" and something that intrigues me as well. We found a builder we really like and a floor plan that would be perfect for us. We found the lot... now we just need to sell our house! One of Jake's friends moms is a realtor and we are working with her to see what happens. If our house doesn't sell by Thanksgiving we are going to work with a contractor to make this house into more of what we want. It has great potential and we love the neighborhood we live in, we just would like a bigger master bed/bath (room to put bedside tables and a dresser would be nice!), a space for our workout stuff that isn't in the middle of our living space, and some upgrades to the flooring upstairs,new window treatments, etc... It definitely makes things a little crazier here as we need to have the house in "showing" condition before we leave each day but I have to say it's kind of nice living in such a clean space day-to-day!
Fall has been so nice here! Evenings have found the kids running around outside with all of the neighbor kids, playing on the hill behind our house, drawing with chalk, tossing the football at the Green, riding scooters and bikes, and basically just entertaining themselves like I remember doing when I was a kid. Winter will be here too fast and I am going to miss these days. But I guess the winter will bring days of sledding and snow ball fights so I can't complain!
The kids are doing well. Faith loved her soccer experience at the Y and was very good at it. She is learning to read already (thanks to tanner's homework from K) and still loves to draw and color. She is definitely a "lefty". She has recently learned to ride a Razr scooter and is a wild girl on that thing. When mom moved here a few weeks ago she brought along Abby's next size bike and she also loves riding that. She is growing like a weed. For Halloween she is going to be a cheerleader. I kept hoping she would change her mind (I know.... I have a weird almost pathological dislike of the cheerleading thing) but no such luck. Her favorite song right now is "Colder Weather" by the Zac Brown Band and she belts it out in the backseat whenever it comes on the radio or my iPod. She still loves her "guys" and usually carries one around with her on the weekend, talking to it and treating it like a pet or a friend. She loves to play with our neighbor, Ava (she is 6), and they play horses and house and other "girl stuff".
Tanner has done so well adjusting to Kindergarten. He loves it. He hasn't had one day when he has complained or worried or been anxious. He is reading already and just seems to take to the whole school thing. He rides his scooter to school, usually with Brian and I, but some mornings he goes alone with Jake. They are very cute together. They play football together before school with kids ranging from Tanner's age to sixth grade. I joined him for Walking Club at lunchtime last week and he was so excited to have me there. I am doing art in his class every other Friday and it is so much fun. I have to admit, however, working with 22 Kindergarteners in art is an experience that is new to me and also makes me realize how well behaved my child is!! I don't know how Kindergarten teachers do it every day! Tanner's favorite song lately has been "Need You Now" by Lady Antebellum. Kind of funny (and maybe a bit disturbing) to hear him belting out the lyrics while riding his scooter in front of our house, "It's a quarter after 1, I'm a little drunk and I NEED YOU NOW!". Booty call song from a five year old. He is really excited for his birthday and the only thing he really wants is a Happy Napper (Thank you, morning TV ads) and tickets to a Steelheads or Boise State game. Still my little love, that one. "Mommy, I don't think I gave you a hug yet this morning!" greets me upon waking. He still crawls into bed with me to cuddle every chance he gets. He starts Y-ball next week and is so excited that Brian is coaching his team.
Jake is very into NFL football this season. Brian started a mini Fantasy League here in our neighborhood and that's been a lot of fun. Many of Jake's friends and their dads are doing it so they often watch together on Sundays. I typically take Faith out to the Y, grocery shopping, and somewhere fun like a pumpkin patch while the boys watch Sunday Football. Jake's football season ended yesterday. It was a hard season- Jake was one of only two third graders on the team, the rest were first year second graders. I think he had fun but they lost every game and I think it was a little discouraging. He still says he wants to play tackle next year. He loves his third grade teacher and is enjoying third grade so far. He still hasn't found that "joy of reading" that I would like for him. He reads his 15 minutes and is done. Getting him interested in books has been a challenge. Unless it is written by Mike Lupica, forget it. He doesn't like fantasy or anything remotely scary. Harry Potter is out of the question, as much as I'd love to share them with him. I keep reminding myself that I survived on Sweet Valley High for much of my young life and still managed to become a book lover so there's still hope! Jake continues to be quite the Lady's Man much to Brian and I's embarrassment. His latest crush is new to school. Her name is Abigail and she just moved here from Texas. She is a (gasp, sigh, barf) a cheerleader for the third grade tackle team. Her brother is a fourth grader that Jake idolizes. I tell you, that boy has been girl crazy since he was born. He "falls in love" with all of our babysitters, Y counselors, teachers, etc... We will have our hands full with that one come high school. No doubt.
Brian surprised the hell out of me recently and arranged a date night for us with four other couples in the neighborhood. We went out to see MoneyBall and then had dinner out. It was so much fun! I hired the daughters of my colleague to babysit all the kids at our house and they had a giant sleepover. Everyone had a great time and we hope to do it again around the holidays. Between that and his instigation of the father/son Fantasy Football League, Brian has become quite the social butterfly :) I started a Mom's Night Out Movie Night last year with three other women and we still meet once a month for dinner/drinks/movie. I'm pretty proud of both of us for stepping out of our comfort zone and putting ourselves out there. Next weekend we have tickets to see Matt Nathanson at the Knitting Factory (a small music venue in Boise). A much needed date night!